Happily
Ever After...
by Debbie A. Crawford, MA, NCC
February 2006
| Kathy
and Larry Seavers |
This
is one couple that certainly isn't about
to sit still. In fact, there are few people
out there that can keep up with the miles
they log and the freinds they have made
along the way.
Their
story began forty years ago this September,
when Larry, an only child, fell head over
heels for Kathy, who comes from a family
of seven children. In 1969, they married.
And together they have two sons, both
now in their 30's.
While
Kathy never got involved in sports as
a child, Larry was a typical kid playing
countless pickup games of baseball, football
and basketball around his neighborhood.
In
the 80's Larry began playing racquetball
and Kathy found her way into running.
Just a few years later, seeing how much
Kathy enjoyed running and noticing all
the friends she was making, Larry bit
the bullet and joined in.
Early
on, Kathy got interested in marathons
and joind the Galloway Program to train
for her first marathon, which was in the
late 80s or early 90s. Since that time,
she has chalked up six finishes, including
two Boston Marathons. Larry has one marathon
under his belt and has learned his body
simply prefers the shorter stuff.
This
past year, the Seavers completed about
45 races each and say that the competition,
the victories and the time with friends
keeps them showing up week after week.
"We
have met so many friends through running
and racing that we would do it for that
alone," says Larry. "Most of
our best friends have come through running,
and we socialize with them a lot."
For
this couple, running is the ultimate sport.
Whether you prefer to train on your own
or with a group, you can run almost anywhere.
It is a low-maintenance, inexpensive avenue
to top physical and mental conditioning.
And it's something couples can easily
share with the added benefit of meeting
lots of friends along the way.
And
it's their shared love of running that
they say keeps them young and happy.
"The consistent activity that comes
from training and the challenges of races
keeps us at a physical and mental state
that helps preserve youth," adds
Larry. "We look forward to every
day." |
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| Ken
and Sarah McAllister |

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"We
met in Winston-Salem at the YMCA,"
says Ken, a former college football player
at Wake Forest. "Sarah was using
a machine and I asked to work in."
"That
was in 1991," adds his bride, a 2-time
Ironman. "After he chased me off
the machine we eventually became friends
and started dating. Ten years later, we
finally got maried... in Italy."
With
his college football days behind him,
Ken began distance running to reduce weight,
even completing several ultra distance
races, and has recently added biking and
yoga to his regular routine.
And
Sarah's tackled some ultra-distances herself.
A triathlete since 1998, she has completed
Ironman Lake Placid and Ironman Canada
the past two years, turning both into
memorable family vacations.
While
both Ken and Sarah have busy careers -
Ken as the southeast Sales Manager for
the Kayer-Roth Corporation and Sarah as
a realtor with Dickens-Mitchener &
Associates - their most valuable time
is spent chasing around their proudest
achievement - 3-year old Maia.
In
fact, mom and dad aren't the only ones
with a passion for fitness. For her third
birthday, Maia got her very own bike,
immediately announcing she was going to
go riding on the Booty Loop.
"Maia
is growing up enjoying exercise and believing
it is part of a normal lifestyle,"
adds Ken. "The side effect is that
she knows the difference between Gatorade
and Accelerade and which flavors she likes
best!"
Juggling
two careers and an energetic 3-year old
takes a team effort.
"We
try to set aside time so we can get our
workouts and events in," says Ken.
"Generally, I have the early morning
and Sunday and Sarah has evenings and
Saturday."
Both
agree they do a pretty good job of keeping
a balance and working with each other's
goals and training needs, but it takes
a little effort and a genuine support
and respect for each other.
Their
advice to everyone? Play fair and take
turns. |
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| Dawn
and Eddie Hinshaw |
Like
Ken and Sarah, the Hinshaws met at the
YMCA - the Uptown Y to be specific.
"He
was the gym rat and I was the aerobics
instructor", says Dawn. "You
can take it from there. Since then, we've
lifted weights, done all kinds of aerobics
classes, biked, rollerbladed, walked and
now our thing is yoga."
After
16 years of marriage, Dawn still marvels
at the fact that Eddie has always taken
whatever classes that she has taught.
"He
was in my hi-impact classes at the Uptown
YMCA, my step classes at the Harris YMCA
and now 3 times a week in my Power Yoga
classes at Charlotte Yoga," she adds.
"He's pretty open minded, or maybe
he still likes spending time with me!"
For
the Hinshaws, exercise has always been
an important part of their lives. And
for Dawn, it's also her career. Since
graduating from ASU, she has been involved
with the YMCA system and currently works
as a personal trainer with Prescriptive
Fitness at the Harris YMCA and teaches
yoga at Charlotte Yoga.
Eddie,
on the other hand, spends his days behing
a desk. A CPA and attorney with Sellers,
Hinshaw, Ayers, Dortch & Lyons, he
specializes in tax, corporate and estate
planning.
And
they are parents of two very active boys,
7-year old Mitchell and 5-year old Jesse,
both of whom are involved in all sorts
of team and individual sports, including
year-round Tae Kwon Do. Eddie and Dawn
encourage the boys to try as many things
as possible and, at the same time, make
sure there is plenty of family time left
for biking or spending time at the pool.
Dawn
says the key to sharing a balanced healthy
lifestyle is simply - respect.
"Being
a personal trainer, I see a lot of couples
who struggle with the fact that one person
needs/loves to exercise and the other
hates or is jealous of the time they put
into it," she says. "Eddie and
I have always respected the fact that
recreation is important to our week or
weekend - together, separately and as
a family." |
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